I'm embarking on a 30 days writing challenge. Normally I'm supposed to start on the first day of the month but as a self proclaimed eccentric I can start any day I like .
DAY 1- Describe your personality
Hmm.
My personality.
Can a person actually describe their own personality?
Genuine question.
Because everyone you meet has a different perception of you.
Some people like you, some can't stand you, some people love everything about you, while others hate you for just being you.
This particular blog post has been in my drafts for more than a week (Antidote has been stressed-a lot), so I'll be writing on day 1.2&3 together. This promises to be deep so stay tuned.
Day 2-Things that make me happy. Day 3- A memory
Back to describing my personality.
I definitely think I'm an eccentric loner- * people that love their own company and revere personal space*
I genuinely like to sleep. Sleeping is the most peaceful thing I think of doing.
I like to be in my own space doing my own thing.
My man says I'm too quiet sometimes but I'm just observing you know. In my thoughts (thinking of money actually) and just basking in peace around me.
I can be loud and playful IF I'm comfortable with you and it comes with mood.
I cannot stand unnecessarily loud people. I don't understand what goes on in their heads, I don't think I want to know really.
I'm mindful of how I speak to people.
I get upset very easily but I'm working on that and I think I've made good progress.
I laugh a lot to cover up other emotions
I cry occasionally. Frustration must have held my neck for tears to drop from my eyes.
I think I'm very adaptable to different situations
I'm very creative. Don't even play
I'm empathic
I cry when I watch sad Korean movies
I'm not a dishonest person that's for sure. I'm very content with my life
I can be quite rude and malicious with my words, only when I'm very angry and it is the other person's fault.
When I love, I love.
I have a hard time making new friends.
I'm a very approachable person but some people think I'm a bad b*tch for some reason unknown to me
This is actually really nice. I've never thought of myself like this. You can share how you think your personality is with me. I'm a very good judge of character and I'm brutally honest.
I have billions in my account. Billions dear! Trillions even. Stop playing.
I'm prayerful (this is actually hard sharing)
I love my master Jesus. I love to worship God. The church is my happy place.
I love to travel. I love art. I love visiting the beach. I like to sew( I'm a typical Nigerian tailor. Don't give me your cloth to sew)
I believe I can sing. Enough for this man to be sleeping on my chest peacefully right now
Don't believe everything you read online o.
I'm not a feminist. I do believe in equality but I also believe men and women can never be the same. That's how our Creator made it.
My family is the most important part of my life.
My Dad is my first love.
My Mum is my sister and girlfriend and mother. Irreplaceable.
I want to have 4 kids and raise them to be independent and God-fearing.
I want to marry A MAN. A man that loves God and loves me and also fears my father and brothers.
I'm afraid of cockroaches.
If you want me to faint, put me in the same space as a live chicken (Alektorophobia is real guys)
I get motion sickness when I travel by road aka Soft life only for this blogger.
I'm very beautiful. Period.
If nobody will hype you, hype yourself dear.
I wouldn't say I'm a proud person but when I put my mind to something and I'm able to achieve it, I feel a sense of accomplishment and satisfaction. (Just recently i acquired a license in Cosmetology- a very expensive license I must add)
I like clothes and perfumes. I like pretty stuff just like any other girl.
I'm appreciative of little efforts.
I call everybody Ma, Sir or My love.
I don't have a sweet tooth.
I cannot run to save my life.
I am not athletic in any manner shape or form.
I don't believe in love at first sight. If I like something I go for it.
When I'm struggling, tired or feeling down only the Holy Spirit can know.
I hate telling people something is wrong or I have a problem.
Wholely and completely a good girl.
Things That Make Me Happy
Food. That one is very obvious (A new recipe blog post is coming to you soon, Fear not)
Spontaneous dates
Gifts
Thoughtful surprises
Cooking actually makes me happy
Spending time with people I love
Spending time with my mummy
Okay I got stuck here. Pls what makes you people happy? Abi am I a sadist?
I just went to browse the meaning of a sadist. I bind and cast in the mighty name of Jesus!
I'm not a sadist please.
But please share what makes you happy with me.
Maybe I can be inspired.
A Memory
This one was a bit vague.
Is it a good memory or a bad memory?
I'll share both anyway
Good memory.
I'll share one from my childhood.
Growing up my grandparents owned this house in festac that had this open garage and a huge backyard and a little garden right in the middle of the house. I loved that house. I spent so much time growing up there. If you want to see me jump when I was young just say let's go to grandmas house. I'm a spitting image of my grandma btw. *God bless and rest her perfect soul. * One of my favorite memories was during Christmas. My grandparents had 9 children. Everybody would come from wherever in the world they were for Christmas. You can imagine how bubbly the house would be with all the children and grandchildren. Those were great times.
Bad memory.
The day my parents house caught fire.
It was such a day. A night actually and how we all made it out was truly God's mercy.
I don't remember most of it but I remember not sleeping in my room that night. My younger brother also didn't sleep in that room and we shared that room. That was the room the fire started from. I remember being carried out of the burning house. I remember my dad being poured with water and going back into the house to bring others out. I remember lots of smoke. I remember having an asthma attack. My first asthma attack. And that's about it.
Now you've seen me finish. If you read this post and don't share your personality or a good/bad memory with me, I'm going to stop writing. Yes! This is a very committed relationship and you must be involved whether you like it or not. Thanks for your corporation. Antidote loves you.
Kisses.